Howdy folks! We’re sending you our best wishes for a new year filled with joy, peace and lots of awesome sex. We have some great things planned for 2009 including hot new products, new workshops, more web videos and something special just for the guys coming (no pun intended) in early 2009. So stay tuned [...]
Carnal Consultant Review – Writers and Rockstars DVD
Writers and Rockstars by Joe I have to make a confession: before watching Writers & Rockstars I wasn’t that familiar with Madison Young. I’d heard of her and knew she was part of the BDSM world, but I’d never seen any of her movies. Writers & Rockstars showed up with the following legend written on [...]
From the Mailbag: Strap On Sex Question….
Hello! I was wondering if any of the dildos, when wearing them in a harness, give any sexual sensation to the wearer without the assistance of a vibrator or anything? Thanks! Howdy, Well.. that depends on what a person defines as “sexual sensation”. Many, many folks derive much sexual pleasure just from the fact that [...]
Carnal Consultant Review – Writers and Rockstars DVD
Writers and Rockstars by Joe I have to make a confession: before watching Writers & Rockstars I wasn’t that familiar with Madison Young.  I’d heard of her and knew she was part of the BDSM world, but I’d never seen any of her movies. Writers & Rockstars showed up with the following legend written on [...]
International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers
December 17th is International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. This event was created to call attention to hate crimes committed against sex workers all over the globe. Originally thought of by Dr. Annie Sprinkle and started by the Sex Workers Outreach Project USA as a memorial and vigil for the victims of the [...]
Event in Chicago tomorrow night!!
“Come Out For Change – A Gay-la For Charity” Comedy Benefit @ the Lincoln Lodge Wed, December 17th @ 9 pm Chicago comedy producer Nellie Huggins announces a very special comedy show to benefit Equality Illinois (“EQIL”), whose mission is to “secure, protect and defend equal rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in [...]
New Female Condom Coming!
The company that makes the ingenious but expensive and not-0ften-used Female Condom (also know as Reality) has just gotten backing from an FDA panel on their new, lower-cost version. You can read the whole story here. This is exciting news as the Female Condom is the only barrier method that women can control themselves and [...]
Using a Vibrator
Here are some tips on how to make your experience using a vibrator as pleasurable as possible: Spend a little time getting to know your vibrator. Try it out on different parts of your body (belly, thighs, etc…) and experiment with the different speed settings (if it has them). Maybe try your vibe while you [...]
Strap-on Sex
Strap-on sex can be a hoot for people of all genders and orientations! All you need is some purchasing tips, a little imagination, and a lot of lube! But first, the tips… Many first-time strappers shuffle into the store with Hollywood images of an all-in-one “strap-on” in their heads, but we find that when you [...]
All About Female Orgasms
It’s funny. As much as Americans are obsessed with sex and sexuality, we are rarely given good advice (or any advice!) on how to explore our own sexual pleasure. Women in particular are implicitly told to let their male partners “give” them orgasms, leaving many women frustrated when this just doesn’t happen. It’s nobody’s fault, [...]




